I turned 30 last week. I can't tell you how many people asked me how I felt about turning 30, was I sad? Was I scared? And it really got me thinking...
was I sad? --- why would I be sad about a birthday? A birthday means I'm still alive. I mean plan and simple, I'm still around, living, enjoying life with my husband and kids, and drinking diet coke. So no, I'm not sad to be turning 30.
Was I scared? --- there's not really much I'm scared of. Talking in front of large crowds. Heights. Losing my children or something/someone hurting my kids. But scared of turning 30, nope can't say that I am. Besides, even if I was scared to turn 30, there's not really much I could do to stop myself...
I've decided instead to embrace 30. I've officially been around for 30 years. I've been an adult for 12 years now. I've been married almost 7 years. I've been a mom for 3 years. I can definitely say that I'm a different person then I was at the beginning of each of those stages and I'm excited to see what the next stages of my life bring.
To celebrate being 30 I've created a bucket list of 30 things I want to do in my life.
- Spend more time with my husband. Brad & I have been together since we were 15. That's 15 years of life together. He's my best friend and the first person I think to call when something good happens, bad happens, when something annoys me or when I think something is hilarious. He's the first person I think of each morning (normally because he's snoring super loud, but that's a different thought...). I love date nights with him.
- Go to Europe. This is a big one. I LOVE to travel. I love packing, going on trips, enjoying a new atmosphere and learning a new cultures.
- Take my kids somewhere new every year. I want my children to be able to have travel experiences. I want to be able to go places and make memories with them. The somewhere new doesn't have to be a "Big" somewhere new.. maybe just a weekend trip to a city we've never been to before or a close state we've never been to.
- Learn a foreign language. I remember enough Spanish to barely have a conversation or understand what someone is saying. I would like to learn a language and be fluent.
- Learn to surf. The thought of me surfing is hilarious but I think it would be amazing.
- Learn to ballroom dance.
- Ride an elephant.
- Go to all the Disney parks. So far I've been to 3 (Disneyland, DisneyParis, and DisneyWorld) so I have Hong Kong and Tokyo.
- Go to Australia
- Go to Asia.
- Go on safari in Africa.
- Camp on the beach.
- Travel to all 50 states and stay at least 1 day. (traveling to the state via airport only doesn't count)
- Go whale watching
- Complete RAGBRAI- I've already done this but I missed a day of the race so I would like to do it again and complete all of the days.
- Go to a Blackhawks Hockey game.
- Eat a meal cooked by a celebrity chef.
- Visit all 7 continents.
- Airboat in alligator waters
- Make my own wine.
- Go to the Holy land and visit the sites from the Bible.
- Read the Bible cover to cover.
- See my children get married.
- Jump off a waterfall.
- Drive through the tunnel trees in California.
- Visit all of the National Parks
- Walk/Run a 5K every year
- Go to a vodka distillery.
- Go to the Ice bars.
- Go to the ballet.
My bucket list is really about traveling and making the most of my experiences with Brad and the kids. I think the biggest thing I can teach my children is that there are other people in the world and it's important to be kind and accepting of everyone. I want my children to have experiences and make memories.
I think lately I've been realizing that people change, people grow and it's okay to not always agree with someone. I can't control everything; I can simply control myself and my reactions to the people around me.
I'm embracing 30--- I'm going to build relationships with the people that are important and want to build relationships with me; I'm going to not stress about things I can't control; I'm going to grow closer to God; I'm going to be happy in my own skin and love myself.
Here's to 30-- may it be one amazing year.
Xo, Tiffany